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Lillie Lee, LCSW

 Life Long Romance

Oscar Wilde said “to love oneself is a life long romance.”  This is a concept I continually return to. I came from a normal dysfunctional family, feeling unwanted, unlovable and undeserving to name a few beliefs. I was not important to me. The day the light bulb turned on was the day I was asked who is more important to you – you or your husband? This was the first time it occurred to me that I needed to be important to me. Who’s most important to you?

To have high self esteem means knowing you are capable and loveable simply because you exist.  Self-esteem is the basis of everything in our lives. All of us have been bombarded as we grow up about what we are to do or to be or to have in order to measure up. For me claiming my self-esteem has been a transforming journey on all levels: emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually.

There is no such thing as too much self-esteem.  No matter the level of your self-esteem you can increase it and grow. We all have unlimited potential. You can change self-judgment, negative limiting beliefs, self-abusive behaviors. Celebrate all of who you are, even those parts that you want to disown or change.

I invite you along with me to begin romancing yourself. Open your heart to you. To open one’s heart to the self is to meet the divine. Begin a life long romance. Sit and dine with the God/Goddess within.

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